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title: Catching up and touching base
description: "\"Catching up and touching base\" is an email subject sure to tune people out from you. Why? because you're asking for favors instead of showing how you can help them out. Be straight forward or helpful instead of being indirect."
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# Catching up and touching base

 May 29th, 2014

 1 min read

 By [David Meerman Scott](https://www.davidmeermanscott.com/blog/author/david-meerman-scott)

When I see an email with the subject line “catching up” or “touching base” I immediately categorize the email as somebody selfishly wanting something from me.

We haven’t spoken in a decade. You didn’t bother to make contact till now. But you’re looking for a new job so you want to “touch base”.

You didn’t bother to return my last email to you but now you want an introduction to somebody I know, so you want to “catch up”.

**You’ve got to give to get**

My grandmother told me that if you want to receive a letter, you have to write one first. Wise advice.

The more you give, the more you can ask.

Give to get applies in social networking as well. Be helpful and share. Good things will come back to you.

Think about what you can do for others. Give gifts. Write thank you notes. Make introductions. Connect people who should know one another. Review someone’s book. Suggest a job opening to a friend. Link to a blog. Re-Tweet. Like.

**Say what you mean**

There is nothing wrong with asking for a favor.

But use a descriptive email subject like: “I would like an introduction to Samantha” instead of saying: “touching base”.

Instead of “catching up” as your subject line, it’s fine to say: “I am looking for a new gig and would like your advice”.

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David Meerman Scott is a business growth strategist, advisor to clever entrepreneurs who are building emerging companies, and the international bestselling author of a dozen books published in 30 languages. David’s high-energy keynote presentations, masterclasses, and virtual events educate, energize, and inspire.

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